Kicking & Screaming
Phil Weston has been unathletic his entire life. In college he failed at every sport that he tried out for. It looks like his 10-year old son, Sam, is following in his footsteps. But when Phil's hyper-competitive dad benches Sam, Phil decides to transfer his son to a new team which needs a coach. Phil steps in to be the temporary coach and immediately begins to butt heads with his dad over this new competition in their lives.
Working with a respectable budget of $45.0M, the film achieved a modest success with $56.1M in global revenue (+25% profit margin).
Plot Structure
Story beats plotted across runtime
Narrative Arc
Emotional journey through the story's key moments
Story Circle
Blueprint 15-beat structure
Arcplot Score Breakdown
Weighted: Precision (70%) + Arc (15%) + Theme (15%)
Kicking & Screaming (2005) showcases strategically placed narrative design, characteristic of Jesse Dylan's storytelling approach. This structural analysis examines how the film's 15-point plot structure maps to proven narrative frameworks across 1 hour and 35 minutes. With an Arcplot score of 6.8, the film balances conventional beats with creative variation.
Structural Analysis
The Status Quo at 1 minutes (1% through the runtime) establishes Phil Weston watches from the sidelines as his son Sam plays soccer, mirroring his own childhood of being overshadowed by his hyper-competitive father Buck. Phil is passive, unassertive, and living in his father's shadow.. Structural examination shows that this early placement immediately immerses viewers in the story world.
The inciting incident occurs at 11 minutes when Buck trades Sam to the Tigers, the league's worst team, to make room for his new neighbor's son on the Gladiators. Phil is devastated but too passive to confront his father about this betrayal.. At 11% through the film, this Disruption aligns precisely with traditional story structure. This beat shifts the emotional landscape, launching the protagonist into the central conflict.
The First Threshold at 22 minutes marks the transition into Act II, occurring at 23% of the runtime. This demonstrates the protagonist's commitment to Phil actively chooses to become head coach of the Tigers. For the first time, he steps into a role that will put him in direct competition with his father, entering the world of coaching and assertiveness., moving from reaction to action.
At 48 minutes, the Midpoint arrives at 50% of the runtime—precisely centered, creating perfect narrative symmetry. The analysis reveals that this crucial beat The Tigers win a major game and are on a winning streak. False victory: Phil appears to have found confidence and success, but he's becoming addicted to coffee and obsessed with beating his father, transforming into the very thing he hated. Stakes raise as the championship becomes possible., fundamentally raising what's at risk. The emotional intensity shifts, dividing the narrative into clear before-and-after phases.
The Collapse moment at 65 minutes (69% through) represents the emotional nadir. Here, Phil has a complete meltdown during a game, acting crazed and out of control. Sam tells his father he doesn't want to play anymore. Phil's wife confronts him about becoming just like Buck. Phil loses what matters most - his son's respect and his family's trust. The "death" of his relationship with Sam., shows the protagonist at their lowest point. This beat's placement in the final quarter sets up the climactic reversal.
The Second Threshold at 71 minutes initiates the final act resolution at 74% of the runtime. Phil apologizes to Sam and the team, synthesizing the lesson: he can be assertive and competitive without being cruel or obsessed. He commits to coaching the championship game the right way - for the kids, not his ego. Combines his newfound confidence with his original compassion., demonstrating the transformation achieved throughout the journey.
Emotional Journey
Kicking & Screaming's emotional architecture traces a deliberate progression across 15 carefully calibrated beats.
Narrative Framework
This structural analysis employs structural analysis methodology used to understand storytelling architecture. By mapping Kicking & Screaming against these established plot points, we can identify how Jesse Dylan utilizes or subverts traditional narrative conventions. The plot point approach reveals not only adherence to structural principles but also creative choices that distinguish Kicking & Screaming within the family genre.
Jesse Dylan's Structural Approach
Among the 3 Jesse Dylan films analyzed on Arcplot, the average structural score is 7.2, reflecting strong command of classical structure. Kicking & Screaming takes a more unconventional approach compared to the director's typical style. For comparative analysis, explore the complete Jesse Dylan filmography.
Comparative Analysis
Additional family films include The Bad Guys, Like A Rolling Stone and Cats Don't Dance. For more Jesse Dylan analyses, see How High, American Wedding.
Plot Points by Act
Act I
SetupStatus Quo
Phil Weston watches from the sidelines as his son Sam plays soccer, mirroring his own childhood of being overshadowed by his hyper-competitive father Buck. Phil is passive, unassertive, and living in his father's shadow.
Theme
Buck tells Phil, "You're too soft on these kids. Without competition, they're never going to learn what it takes to win in life." The theme: finding balance between unhealthy competition and healthy assertiveness.
Worldbuilding
Setup of Phil's passive life running a vitamin store, his relationship with wife Barbara and son Sam, and the toxic dynamic with his father Buck who coaches Sam's soccer team, the Gladiators. Sam gets transferred to the worst team, the Tigers.
Disruption
Buck trades Sam to the Tigers, the league's worst team, to make room for his new neighbor's son on the Gladiators. Phil is devastated but too passive to confront his father about this betrayal.
Resistance
Phil reluctantly becomes assistant coach of the Tigers. He meets the hapless team and their distracted coach. When the coach quits, Phil debates whether to step up as head coach, battling his fear of confronting his father and his own insecurities about competing.
Act II
ConfrontationFirst Threshold
Phil actively chooses to become head coach of the Tigers. For the first time, he steps into a role that will put him in direct competition with his father, entering the world of coaching and assertiveness.
Mirror World
Phil recruits Mike Ditka as assistant coach. Ditka becomes the mentor/mirror character who will teach Phil about confidence and standing up for himself, while also cautioning against becoming too obsessed with winning.
Premise
The "fun and games" of Phil learning to coach, implementing creative strategies, bonding with the kids, and gradually transforming the Tigers from losers into competitors. Phil discovers coffee and becomes increasingly intense about winning.
Midpoint
The Tigers win a major game and are on a winning streak. False victory: Phil appears to have found confidence and success, but he's becoming addicted to coffee and obsessed with beating his father, transforming into the very thing he hated. Stakes raise as the championship becomes possible.
Opposition
Phil becomes increasingly manic and competitive, alienating his wife, son, and team. His coffee addiction spirals. Buck escalates his own ruthless tactics. The final showdown between Phil and Buck's teams approaches, but Phil is losing himself and his family in his obsession.
Collapse
Phil has a complete meltdown during a game, acting crazed and out of control. Sam tells his father he doesn't want to play anymore. Phil's wife confronts him about becoming just like Buck. Phil loses what matters most - his son's respect and his family's trust. The "death" of his relationship with Sam.
Crisis
Phil processes his failure, goes through coffee withdrawal, and reflects on how he became exactly what he despised in his father. Dark night of the soul as he realizes winning meant nothing if he lost his family and himself.
Act III
ResolutionSecond Threshold
Phil apologizes to Sam and the team, synthesizing the lesson: he can be assertive and competitive without being cruel or obsessed. He commits to coaching the championship game the right way - for the kids, not his ego. Combines his newfound confidence with his original compassion.
Synthesis
The championship game finale. Phil coaches with balance - competitive but caring, strategic but not ruthless. He confronts Buck, standing up to him with confidence but without cruelty. The Tigers play their hearts out. Phil benches the star player to give everyone a chance, prioritizing values over victory.
Transformation
Phil and Sam celebrate together, win or lose. Phil has transformed from passive to assertive without becoming his father. He's found his voice, earned his son's respect, and broken the cycle. The final image shows a healthy father-son relationship based on mutual respect, not domination.